Simplicity Of My Complications: Spicy Thailand Sutra Of Distractions

Monday, July 31, 2006

Spicy Thailand Sutra Of Distractions

we're all distracted in one way or another,
one of the lessons learnt.
never laugh with food particles in my mouth.

television is bad for personal knowledge

we're all eventually imperfectly ourselves.

* especially when eating with the girlfriend.
somehow, somewhere a foreign-tiny,
someting flew onto her hand.
oops, silly me.

ample sleep's good really.
taking naps are heavenly,
being late by 20 mins,
while on one much un-anticipated.
nevertheless, time spent;
* truly priceless and deliciously spicy.

thus, eventually lead,
to having tom yam and chicken noodles.
in the banquet of the ang mo kio area,
after a drizzled yet short walk
from her polytechnic institution.

hopefully,
flu nor fever
wasn't caught during that short exercise and blissful indulgence.

yup, blissful, bit crappy minor-chaotic,
but truly blissful.
i have to admit
i'm usually the crappy one, hehe.

recently been 'blog-hopping'
and found something quite enlightening..

* is it a trend nowadays for a lady to simply
just end a long relationship
just because the guy has changed for the worse in her eyes.

* for example, this was taken
from a blog which i respect the writer,
so no names shall be mentioned:

" So yeah, I took the step to end it. It's a shocker, I know coz in the eyes of others, we were the perfect and happy couple. But why end it? Simple. He's changed. Changed to the person I don't wish to be with. I fell in love with the perfect guy almost 3 years ago. The optimistic, the perfectionist, the leader, the one who could stand on his own feet, the listener, the wise man, the one who will never give up, the witty, the happy-go-lucky guy, the romantic, the one who'd treat me like a queen and everything in between. Now he's changed to a completely different person. I guess this would be the right move. To let myself focus on things more important to me like my family and my career. At the same time to let him reflect on his flaws. For now, I don't wish to commit myself into any intimate relationship. I'd leave everything to fate. I just see what the future has for me. I believe there's always something behind everything that happens. "Kalau ader jodoh, we will be together eventually." That's what I told him when we met yesterday. The rest is up to him if he wants to change back to the person I fell in love with or change for the worse. "
* And this was her second entry:

" Ending the relationship wasn't an easy one. It forced me a lot into thoughts which took days. I took the courage to take the step although I don't know what the consequences are. It has nothing to do with any airport guy or biker guy or whatever. It's between me and the guy I used to date. True enough, what I've done has its powers. It gave him the reason to reflect on his flaws. It made him realized how negative he has been towards everything. It definitely gave him a wake up call and he thanked me for that. Like they say, "Bila dah terhantuk baru sedar." He knows he hasn't been putting much effort and he wants to be the person he used to be, the person I used to adore. I'm giving him time to think and reflect. More time to change back to his old self coz I don't want him to do this just to get me back. He's learning to appreciate again. "
* Hmm..,
it's really confusing yet enlightening to read about
the complications of some random individual.

hopefully there wouldn't come a time,
when that same senario happens to me.
we're all prone to mistakes.
perfection isn't reality.

* i might change for the worse in the future,
but, i believe and
i do truly appreciate my smooth baby butt-cheeks dear.

~ enough said,
here's the link to those who multi-tasks.
semi-multi-taskers, please click here.

* a.month.&.7.days;wished-forever~more,to-last.

~ tom yam advertisment of the silly boyfriend..

* heart.her.til.pieces,
.. all'the~best.for the.presentations,ahead.

.. with guilt, he took a shot straight to da head close to da same time of..
8:04 PM

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